A cozy feeling

I spent the first several months of my engagement being shocked at the sheer amount of things people are expected to do when they get married, and the cost of those individual things. A videographer? A calligrapher for the invitations?? A cake knife and server that cost more than $50??? They don't tell you about these "traditions" when you're dating.
Shortly after a giddy visit to David's Bridal to try on dresses, I began receiving catalogs in the mail with ideas for favors, minutiae for the wedding, and gift ideas for bridesmaids and groomsmen. I know as a recent college graduate and a reporter that I don't make very much money, but I was shocked at the amount of money people spend on each favor for their guests, or at least the amount the catalogs want you to spend.
About that time is when I started brainstorming with my fiance on what we could make ourselves. I knit and crochet, and my fiance is a paper craft aficionado, so our first idea was that we would make different animals for each table at the reception. I thought I would use the amigurumi style, a simple way of crocheting shapes popularized in Japan. The problem is it takes me a really long time to make amigurumi animals, because they are simple, but sometimes there are a lot of finishing steps.
We decided to stick with amigurumi, but instead, I would make simple hearts. I am using a free pattern from a very smart blogger called owlishly, (click here to see the pattern or download it), since I'm not making any profit from the wedding favors.Our colors are purple and black, so I have been making the majority of the hearts in various purples. There are a few in crazy colors, just because I had some yarn sitting around and I wanted to crochet it up. I'm hoping I'll have enough different colors to satisfy all the kids in the crowd.
The other thing I plan to crochet myself is our cake topper. We had initially planned on having Wall-E and Eve as our cake topper, because we love the movie Wall-E, but I started having second thoughts and fretting that it may look too like a kid's birthday cake. Then I started working on our invitations (another post) and decided I wanted a bird theme instead. Daniel has been patient and understanding with me, so it was easy to convince him of birds.
I looked to Etsy for cake toppers, and there were plenty, but they are all appallingly expensive. The proverbial light bulb then appeared over my head and I clicked to my favorite compendium of amigurumi-style patterns, Lion Brand Yarn's pattern database. There, I found the perfect little birdlets.

This photo is from the Lion Brand website, so this is not what our birds will look like. But you get the idea.
I've been able to drastically reduce our costs by making these items. Granted, it is taking some time to make 100+ crochet hearts, but I think it's worth it. I want to put effort into the things we provide for our guests. I want them to know how happy we are that they are there to celebrate our marriage.

Gonna get married...

I thought I'd start a blog about my wedding, because I sure want to blather on about it, but I don't want to bother my social-networking-site friends, particularly those of the "I hate others who are happy" ilk. (Not that I haven't been there at one time or another.)

I'm getting married on July 16, 2011, to a neato guy named Daniel. We are really happy.

The kind of defining characteristic of our wedding is we're attempting to have much of it be handmade, and all of it on a budget. So that's what I'll be writing about, is what we're doing, and how. Thanks for reading, and I hope that my posts are more interesting from here on out.